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j’ai un grand problème.i’m waiting for a solution or maybe a complement. pls help me?
in 7 days my father will come from europe . he stayed their for 4 years .he sacrified a lot to make us happy and to have a beautifull home. he was their working very hard.but the problem is that i can’t accept the idea of his coming and his control on us.i think he has not the right to control me in a hard way. i’m so sensitive and i can’t support any word from him.by the way ,when i was born my father wasn’t hier and he arrived when i was 1 year. in addition , he traveled after that a lot and for the last 8 years i didn’t see him exept 1 year then he returned to europe. i know he sacrified to make us live a better life but we also sacrified.in this years i was really alone .i taked all my decisions alone with no help from any body exept my mum.she was and she still my angel.i love her so much and i want to love my dad that way.but i can’t forget at the same time that he wasn’t with me in my sadness .i’m 19 and he doesn’t know even my age.i succeeded inthe bac and i was alone crying.
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can you speak french ?
i think it will be easier for everybody !!!
i don’t speak english
you need to give your father another chance. i know it must have been hard growing up without your dad around… but as you say, he was in europe to work and support all of you guys to have a better life and maybe go to college…
just wait for him to come back and see how it goes. just don’t close your heart on him. he is your dad and i’m sure he loves you very much.
Solution, parle-en à ton père. Et si tu ne comprends pas, va le demander dans une section qui parle anglais
Ok i see … he is a money machine nothing else…
En gros:
- Son père n’était jamais présent pour elle depuis sa naissance
- Elle vie seule depuis 1 an et prend toute ses décisions toute seule
- Son père vient dans 4 jours, et elle sait pas si elle va supporter…
I think that you should explain him what you think of him,from your birth to today,I’ve noticied that you can’t stand him anymore and as far as I’m concerned I understand you.now,it’s your father and he has a very important place ,don’t forget that we have only one life and if you turn your back from him now,you’ll regret it later.
Pourquoi écrire tout ça en anglais alors que visiblement tu n’es pas anglophone, bien que ce soit pas mal dans l’ensemble, vu certaines fautes qu’un anglophone ne ferait pas?
Well if your father come to see you and live wth you, you have to make things very clear to him such as you conduct your life the way you like .
Parents have to undestand that childrens are like arrows, once they are big enough then they must let them go.
you’ve got a father , he’s not perfect but I think he would not change. maybe he will stay a strange for you , all your life, you must accept that, and now you’re 19, not a child, soon an adult
leave him time to know you, to understand you, you probably missed him too and he made sacrifices for his family
don’ forget that your mum is his wife too !
I hope you understand my english, not perfect !
You felt abandoned over the past years, but the reality is a bit different… Your father had no choice but to leave you and your familly to make a better living and allow you to have a better life (financially)… Now, you must learn to know each other. At 19 you are not a kid anymore so you should be able to live your way without having him controling you! Tell him when he arrives that you want to learn to know him better… but that he has to do the same!
tu pourrais quand mème traduire c’est pas tout le mondequi parle courament anglais okkk????
The father shows his love but may be in an other ways … just few men who they can show their love with affection and tenderness.. When he control you mean he is jealous and he loves you and he want to protect you.. When he left the family and go to Europe it was for you and am sure especially for his children. you didn’t know and am sure he will not tell you how it was his real life there and he will never tell you the bad times he past also alone and he was wishing that his lovely daughter being near to him and cry to her and tell her how hard he suffer from this separation. Your father scarified with everything for you with his time with his health with his dignity with his money.. All for you and you could recognize it… may be you still younger and you may appreciate all this but you will appreciate more and more when you will start to look after your live and the live of your own children …me am not agree with the emigration of the person without his family but some ppl they don’t have a choice or they prefer to scarify with the social life to assure the financial one.. from both sides his first target its to improve a better life for his family when he is facing a lonely and a hard life… you think a father doesn’t need the love and the affection no and no
So all you need to do is preparing your self to give love and receive love
Your father needs that and you need that and all family miss the social life so try to arrange that in your way am sure your father will not be surprise from your behavior he knows that you had a free life and you tried to manage your self in when confronting several problems but he will try to understand you as much as you are not doing anything wrong
All the things you’re imagining will be wrong your father will be cool than ever you see him b4